About

I’ve been in therapy for the last eleven years.  It was 2007 when everything started to gel.  It took a long time to get to this point.  Mostly it took a long time to learn what it could be possible when I really trusted my therapist.  This blog is my way of chronicling what I am learning about myself as I discover what it feels like to have a deep and satisfying attachment relationship in adulthood after a lot of pain and agony without it.

I write in a really causal style and think/feel as I write. I don’t review and double check what I write for missing words or clarity. I write as if I were talking to a really warm, receptive, empathic audience who cares more about seeing me and knowing me rather than if I got the words just right.

I also write for people who might be struggling with the same things I have. I hope that knowing what’s on my heart helps them know what’s on their heart.

Sometimes it feels really audacious to think that others might want to know such intimate things about my life and my experience of healing. Other times I think about how much I would like to read things written by someone who cares as much as I do about learning from her relationship with her therapist, her husband, and her life.

If this blog touches you, drop me a line. I would like to imagine you in that warm, receptive, empathic audience that I have conjured in my head.

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